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September 23rd, 2007 at 6pm
Foreign Cinema | 2534 Mission St | San Francisco, CA
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Isabelle, my bridesmaid, gave us a great toast. Unfortunately, it was rather hard to hear some of the toasts during the reception. So here it is if you care to read it:
"Those of you who know me (or who have read my bio on the pookies in love Web site) know that Karen and I have been friends for several years. When I first met Karen, I learned about a very interesting characteristic of hers. Karen has this tendency to discover new things and gets a bit obsessed or fixated on them. If you don’t know what I’m talking about, let me give you a few examples. Several years back, Karen discovered Italian food – actually pasta. I think it was during a trip to Italy that she realized pasta, when made well, is delicious! So what did she do? She started cooking up all sorts of pasta dishes, throwing dinner parties for her friends to try them, bringing pasta for lunch every day, and we all thought she’d probably quit her day job soon and start her own cooking show.
Or, take the time she discovered ice cream. She went out and bought an ice cream maker and made a different flavor of ice cream every day. Of course, we were all rushing to try them out and actually hoped she’d quit her day job and make us ice cream all day instead!
Ok, I’m making it seem like Karen is obsessed on with food…but her obsessions span other areas too. I remember when Karen discovered eBay…she was online every day winning auctions. And what about tennis? Karen had hardly picked up a racquet three years ago…but the day she did, we all knew Karen would be well on her way to winning tennis championships…and we were right!
All of these examples of Karen’s obsessions are centered around food and sports. And while Karen became great at all of these, she probably wasn’t getting much love back because as we all know inanimate objects and activities can’t reciprocate! So that brings me to Karen’s most recent obsession (aside from wedding planning)…Paul. I still remember the first day she told me about Paul. It was during a phone conversation and I remember thinking that this guy seemed to be pretty into her (but that wasn’t a surprise!). I had no idea that after that day, I’d be hearing about Paul every day for the rest of my life. But there was a slight difference with Karen’s new fixation, and I experienced it the first time I met Paul…this time, the obsession was mutual, and as strong (if not stronger) from the other party. The first time I met him was during their weekend trip to visit me in SB. That weekend, I don’t think I had Karen alone for more than 3 minutes (when we were waiting in line for food while Paul went to the ATM). They ate out of one plate with one fork and shared one glass. They called each other pookie!
So please join me in raising your glasses to Karen and Paul…and their obsessions."
We are having our wedding at Foreign Cinema, which is and has been one of the Top 100 restaurants in SF Bay Area for the last 10 years. The restaurant cuisine focuses on using fresh seasonal and sustainable ingredients prepared in French and Mediterranean styles, or colloquially known as Californian Cuisine.
Foreign Cinema is named for its large projector style movie screen contained in the outdoor atrium area. The ceremony will be held in this area, which is open air. Please dress appropriately as weather can be rather brisk or change unexpectedly in San Francisco. The other two main areas in the restaurant, both in-doors, are the Gallery, where cocktails, hor d’oeurvres, and dancing will take place, and the Main Dining room, where a formally seated 5 course meal will be served. Bring your appetite!
The restaurant is located in a vibrant neighborhood called The Mission. This area is one of the major hot spots in the city, containing a plethora of trendy restaurants and bars. Parking in the area can be difficult, though Sunday evening is one of the best times to find parking there. Foreign Cinema offers valet parking for $10 and there is a paid parking lot behind the restaurant on Bartlett St. between 21st and 22nd. See map. However, we suggest using public transportation such as BART or taking a cab.
We are very much looking forward to the big event and sharing our special day with all of you!
Please respond to corresponding evite for each event, or contact Paul to attend.
Saturday, July 7, 2007
Bachelor Party (open to all)
Bachelorette Party (open to all)
Saturday, September 22, 2007
Rehearsal Lunch @ 1:30pm Taqueria Altena
Wedding Rehearsal @ 2:30pm Foreign Cinema
Family Dinner @ 8:30pm King of Thai Noodle House
Sunday, September 23, 2007
Groom’s Family Brunch @ 10:30am Yank Sing Rincon Center
Wedding Ceremony and Reception @ 6:00pm Foreign Cinema
Monday, September 24, 2007
Post-Wedding Brunch @ 11:00am Zazie (open to all)
Registry Info:
Our first preference is to honor the Chinese tradition of the red envelope.
If you prefer, you can instead help fund the honeymoon by contributing here. We're planning to take an exotic trip to Vietnam during the Winter.
Alternatively, if you strongly prefer to get us a boxed gift, we are registered at Target.
(Programs will not be handed out at the wedding to conserve paper. )
Special thanks to the people who helped make this day so special:
Bride’s Parents: Rosina Shu-Hua Chen & James Hendel
Groom’s Parents: Tonie & Phil Hiley, Michael Willard
Officiant: Nancy Wang
Bridesmaids: Annamarie Ho, Isabelle Meyer-Stapf, Agnes Hsu
Groomsmen: Mustafa Patni, Matthew Hiley, Steve Winter
Musicians: Trina Willard, Trey Gunn
Reader: Christin Engstrom
MC and DJ: Guri Singh
Usher: Jason Chao, Chi Chen
Greeter: Rachel Yang
Ceremony
Procession
Officiant Greeting
Reading from The Alchemist
Charge
Exchange of Vows
Presentation of Rings
Musical Performance of We’ve Only Just Begun
Pronouncement
Recession
Reception
Cocktail Hour @ Gallery & Atrium
Cocktails, Passed Hor D’oeurvres, & Seafood Bar
Formal Seated Dinner @ Main Dining Room
Dinner includes:
* Salad Course
* Pasta Course
* Fish Course
* Main Course (Kobe Beef, Mixed Grill, or Vegetarian)
* Wedding Cake
Toasts
Cutting of the Wedding Cake
After Dinner Festivities @ Gallery
Bouquet Toss
Garter Toss
First Dance
General Dancing
To-Go Dessert Bar
Karen and Paul met as acquaintances back in 2000 through their mutual friend Nancy. Though they did not spend much time with each other until April of 2006, when Paul was coming to SF on a business trip and asked Karen and Nancy to have dinner. Nancy couldn’t make it, but Karen could, since she fortuitously could not play tennis due to rain. So they met for dinner in The Mission and that is how it all started….
About Karen:
Born and raised in San Francisco, Karen got her bachelor’s degree from U.C. Berkeley in Industrial Engineering and Operations Research. In college, she fell in love with traveling after going to Europe for the first time during her junior year. After college she worked in Silicon Valley and began to pursue a part-time master’s degree in Management Science and Engineering at Stanford University. After a few years, she then decided to finish her master’s full-time and throw in some travel in between. During that time, she was able to spend two months in Taiwan and one month backpacking around Southeast Asia and Japan. After graduating from Stanford, she began a new career in the wireless industry and is now currently working at a small Palo Alto start-up that creates mobile media applications. Karen still loves to travel and especially loves to travel with Paul, as demonstrated by how they have already been all around the world together. She also loves to play tennis and makes Paul hit with her almost every day. Additionally, she enjoys cooking delicious food, but hates to clean, so Paul generously offers his services there as well.
About Paul:
Paul was born in West Palm Beach, FL and spent his early years shirtless catching lizards, stepping on frogs, and eating fish and lobster. He moved to St. Louis, MO and got his Bachelor's degree at Iowa State University in Aerospace Engineering. He then went to Seattle to design aircraft at Beoing for 7 years. After that he got a Master's degree in Manufacturing Systems Engineering at Stanford and joined NextCard, a startup in San Francisco. At NextCard, he had the fortune to meet Karen through their mutual friend Nancy. He always thought she was cute and fun, but unfortunately never got to know her very well back then. Since then he has worked on web sites for banks, including Advanta in Philadelphia and Washington Mutual in Seattle and San Francisco. He has pursued several sports including basketball, mountain climbing, running, and most recently tennis to enjoy the quality exercise time with Karen.
Saturday, December 16th, 2006
Karen and Paul were spending a weekend in romantic Monterrey, CA so that Paul could get his Scuba certification before their trip to Belize. Unbeknownst to Karen, Paul was planning to propose during dinner on Saturday night. While Paul was out doing his certification dives, Karen was wandering around Monterrey’s cannery row with Paul’s cell phone when she noticed that he received a text message from one of her good friends. The text said “Good luck tonight and I don't mean the diving!” Instantly, Karen knew that tonight was the night he would propose. Later on that day, Paul caught wind that Karen knew. So he had to resort to some unplanned stunts. The first one was being wishy-washy about where to eat that night. The second one being that he was super tired and wanted to just stay in. After Karen practically forced Paul to take her out to a restaurant in Carmel, they ended up wandering around the city looking for a place to hang out. They ended up at the restaurant called Cassanova’s, where they sat in the atrium area under a tree and enjoyed some wine and dessert. At around 11pm at night, when Karen was pretty convinced that Paul was not going to propose, he finally popped the question.
And you all know what the answer was. :)
The Officiant:
This city is truly one of the best places to live in the country. SF boasts a range of fun and interesting activities and sights for everyone. Here are a few suggestions on must see tourist attractions:
Golden Gate Bridge – Don’t miss this. It’s like going to Paris without seeing the Eiffel Tower. The views are spectacular from here. Karen's favorite way to see the bridge is to walk there from Crissy field in the Marina, while Paul favors driving to the hills on the Marin side of the bridge to view the structure back dropped with SF. You can't go wrong either way.
Fisherman’s Wharf – A very touristy part of town along the waterfront that includes Pier 39 and Ghirardelli Square that can be a fun stroll, but not very representative of the real SF. The best part is seeing the sea lions by Pier 39. You can also take ferries from here to Sausalito/Marin, Angel Island, and Alcatraz.
Cable Car Ride – The quintessential SF experience.
Ferry Building Market – This has become one of the most popular places to hang out and shop on the weekends. Save your appetite for perusing the various local artisan food shops, stands, and restaurants. Spending $6 for a tomato is not unheard of at this upscale farmer’s market. For those on a budget, don’t worry, there are tons of free samples to fill up on as well.
Chinatown – Makes for an interesting walk to see all the exotic foods and shops located in this “town”. A lot of it is touristy (i.e. bad Chinese restaurants and cheap junk for sale), but there is still the "real" Chinatown dispersed with the tourist traps.
Lombard Street – This famous crooked street is quite fun to drive or walk down. The crooked section is the block below Hyde Street.
For a more extensive list of things to do and additional information on the above, please visit this site.
We love the restaurants in San Francisco. Here are a few of our favorites that we would highly recommend going to. Reservations are recommended for some of them.
We suggest staying in the Union Square area due to its close proximity to many of the sights listed above and to the main shopping area. Additionally, the wedding is easily reached by BART or a 10 minute cab ride from this location.
We have reserved a room block at the Marriot Hotel in Union Square for $179 a night. To reserve, please call 1-800-228-9290 and ask for the special rate for Paul Willard.
There are a lot of other hotels in the area such as the Westin St. Francis, W Hotel, Sir Francis Drake, Hotel Nikko, and Triton Hotel to just name a few. In looking for a hotel around this area, please avoid the areas around Market & 6th and Eddy St.
There are fewer options for those who want to stay closer to the actual wedding venue. The beautiful Mission Dolores area, which is adjacent to The Mission, but closer to Dolores Park and the Castro, has a very nice B&B that is close to public transportation and is walking distance to Foreign Cinema called The Parker Guest House. Another good option to try is Elements Hotel that offers private rooms; however it also houses a very popular club on Friday and Saturday nights so loud music will pump through the hostel until 2am. Some people stayed here and liked it just fine though.